Internet Dating

I am a member of another forum and have been for some time now. I have been cyber-friendly with some of the members there and have swapped PMs from time to time. Usually I am very wary about the dangers of the internet and for instance have avoided replying to unsolicited PMs from certain quarters on this site.

However I have 'known' one of the members on the other site for about 2 years now and he has just asked to meet up after I sent him my picture, though my face was not clear. He seems a nice guy and his posts are very mannerly but how do I know for sure that he is not a mad axe murderer who will bludgeon me to death and then dismember my body and leave it in bins around Tralee or wherever we meet. He has suggested a hotel but I think he just means the bar. He says he is not married and I believe him even though he was a bit unhappy about a year ago when I sent him an email to his private address.

I am in two minds. I think it could be fun but on the other hand is it dangerous. What would you do?

Up to you.

It is a bit risky, but as long as you are prepared and can take care of yourself it should be ok.

Make sure you meet him in a busy/crowded public place, that way if he is a psycho people would be nearby to help.

Tell one of your close friends where you are going, when you expect to be back etc so if anything does happen someone knows where you are.

Are there any crowded places in Kerry?

GAA-Fan wrote:Are there any crowded places in Kerry?

Her pants?

mossbags wrote:

GAA-Fan wrote:Are there any crowded places in Kerry?

Her pants?

GAA-Fan wrote:Are there any crowded places in Kerry?

the exit?

SamiPremier08 wrote:

GAA-Fan wrote:Are there any crowded places in Kerry?

the exit?

Careful now.

mossbags wrote:

GAA-Fan wrote:Are there any crowded places in Kerry?

Her pants?

And what exactly is that supposed to mean? I don't actually wear pants but I'd say the only time yours are crowded is when the verbal stuff that comes out your top end comes out your other end and you have your bicycle clips on. Often I'd say.

Sami thanks for the mature advice. I am going to meet him and bring my friend Gloria along, to start anyway. She's 18 stone and doesn't take it from anybody.

KerryKatriona wrote:

mossbags wrote:

GAA-Fan wrote:Are there any crowded places in Kerry?

Her pants?

And what exactly is that supposed to mean? I don't actually wear pants but I'd say the only time yours are crowded is when the verbal stuff that comes out your top end comes out your other end and you have your bicycle clips on. Often I'd say.

Sami thanks for the mature advice. I am going to meet him and bring my friend Gloria along, to start anyway. She's 18 stone and doesn't take it from anybody.

at that weight i'd say shes not offered it too often !!!!!!!

She is a lovely girl with a glandular problem but don't let that stop you mocking her Bocerty.

KerryKatriona wrote:She is a lovely girl with a glandular problem but don't let that stop you mocking her Bocerty.

beauty is in the eye of the beer holder Kerry

bocerty wrote:

KerryKatriona wrote:She is a lovely girl with a glandular problem but don't let that stop you mocking her Bocerty.

beauty is in the eye of the beer holder Kerry

i notice Kerry has been on since she went on her date - should we contact the Gardai

bocerty wrote:i notice Kerry has been on since she went on her date - should we contact the Gardai

Everything was working out fine. Until he went off with my ex-friend Gloria.

KerryKatriona wrote:

bocerty wrote:i notice Kerry has been on since she went on her date - should we contact the Gardai

Everything was working out fine. Until he went off with my ex-friend Gloria.

oh no! sound like the plot of a bad romcom

That cow Gloria. Never liked her.

RMDrive wrote:That cow Gloria. Never liked her.

bad luck Kerry - he obviously prefers his women with a bit of meat on them - hope he didnt burn his ass on the light bulb when he was getting jiggy

RMDrive wrote:That cow Gloria. Never liked her.

Ha turns out she went out with him the weekend and he never put his hand in his pocket. Not even to scratch himself. She's welcome to him. Any man that has no motorbike but wears bikers leathers and skinny jeans (with a huge buckle) should be avoided. It is 2010 after all. I epect her to come running back in the next week or two blubbing and saying sorry but she'll be given a fair old freezing before normality returns.

KerryKatriona wrote:

RMDrive wrote:That cow Gloria. Never liked her.

Ha turns out she went out with him the weekend and he never put his hand in his pocket. Not even to scratch himself. She's welcome to him. Any man that has no motorbike but wears bikers leathers and skinny jeans (with a huge buckle) should be avoided. It is 2010 after all. I epect her to come running back in the next week or two blubbing and saying sorry but she'll be given a fair old freezing before normality returns.

You've just described half the lads on this forum Katriona!